8 September 2010, 5:09 pm
My two best friends are dating. The guy basically became my best friend after he started dating my best girlfriend because I'd hang out with both of them so much. I've been quite attracted to him for a few months now but I know I can't make any sort of move on him. We're kinda flirty with each other sometimes and we exchanged back massages once but we decided to stop that because we decided together that it was inappropriate. I didn't see him for a whole month this summer because he was with my best friend in newfoundland visiting his family. I figured time away from him might calm my attraction to him but it didn't help at all. I dream about him a lot of nights and we've never had sex in any of the dreams but I'm usually hugging him or holding his hand, and a few nights ago I actually dreamt that I walked in on him mastubating at my house. He's two years younger than me and I'm usually not attracted to younger guys. (I'm really attracted to older guys mostly, I'd date a 30 year old no problem, I'm 18) But this guy's just so quick witted and down to Earth, I can't help being attracted to him If anyone could give me some advice on what to do, but I don't want to stop being his friend or anything like that. Also, if anyone else is in a similar situation, or ever was, please give me some input on how you dealt with it. PLease don't give me smart ass answers... Read More »