8 September 2010, 5:07 pm
I dated this girl a while ago. We had dated for 3 months, broke up for a bit, she dated someone else for a month, but then we ended up getting back together again for another 3 months. Then we broke up bad and didn't speak often at all up until a while ago. The argument was both our faults, I was being immature and she took something I said completely wrong. Anyway, she's been dating a guy for almost a year since then (we broke up 2 years ago). She finally texted me trying to catch up a few days ago, and we finally started talking again. I do like her a lot, we had been good friends before we started dating. I asked how she was handling her bipolar disorder... and she stopped for a second and said 'about that... get on FB chat'. She sent me a link to an anonymous blog, where a few days ago she posted about finally being able to talk about being raped, the man responsible had been discovered, and died resisting police. She said he was the reason she had been so messed up, especially concerning guys. She asked me not to talk about it since only myself, her boyfriend, and her family knew about it. I told her the guy was a fuck, she's a wonderful girl and if she ever needs to talk she can always talk to me. I also said her boyfriend probably tells her this all the time... and she told me that while he does she says it sounds forced now (which makes her feel horrible for saying she says, and it might just be because of her bipolarness) Regardless we've been texting a LOT since then. I live 1000 miles away right now (and will for another 9 months, in my last year of college), but we've been trading pictures of our apartments, she's sent me a picture of her smiling face a couple times, I sent her one of myself now. I was bored at work and told her I had just taken a quiz to name the first 151 pokemon and joked how the girls would just be lining up... and she said she was impressed and would be first in line! Then 10 minutes later added 'If I was single anyway...' Talking to her today now though she suddenly stopped texting me back. I tried again about an hour later and she just said back 'lol I'm sorry... i'm not feeling well... i'm in the middle of a fight.... :( ' What do you think is going on? How should I handle all of this? If she needs emotional support I'll give it but it seems like she almost wants me to be the rebound guy coming off of a breakup she saw coming...... Read More »
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